Comments on: How to speak http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/ Making Babies Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:43:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: Fiona http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17462 Fiona Wed, 15 Oct 2008 21:59:14 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17462 I completely agree. I couldn't imagine it. I can try but I couldn't possibly understand. Even when I put myself back to where I was, I never gave up hope because I always had a reason to have a little bit. I don't know what would have happened to me if I had had to give up hope. And I already had one child. You are right - those people stop posting on message boards and they stop blogging. They can be all too easily forgotten because they have stopped shouting. I don't know how they cope - yes, they are the real heroes. I completely agree. I couldn’t imagine it. I can try but I couldn’t possibly understand. Even when I put myself back to where I was, I never gave up hope because I always had a reason to have a little bit. I don’t know what would have happened to me if I had had to give up hope. And I already had one child. You are right – those people stop posting on message boards and they stop blogging. They can be all too easily forgotten because they have stopped shouting. I don’t know how they cope – yes, they are the real heroes.

]]> By: jenny http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17456 jenny Wed, 15 Oct 2008 07:57:45 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17456 I think that what Fiona has been through is very dramatic. Lots of treatments, miscarriages and the trauma of all that. But it's great that she knew she could conceive and that got her through and she never lost hope because she knew she could get pregnant. But for people who have to come to terms with infertility and get into a place where they have to ACCEPT that they will never have children and learn to live without hope- they are the real heros. And they won't blog about it because its too bloody painful. And everyday is a grind and people think they should get on with their lives and most of their infertile friends become pregnant and naturally gravitate towards other pregnant women etc I think if you have been through all that- then you have been to a place where Fiona can't even imagine. I think that what Fiona has been through is very dramatic. Lots of treatments, miscarriages and the trauma of all that. But it’s great that she knew she could conceive and that got her through and she never lost hope because she knew she could get pregnant. But for people who have to come to terms with infertility and get into a place where they have to ACCEPT that they will never have children and learn to live without hope- they are the real heros. And they won’t blog about it because its too bloody painful. And everyday is a grind and people think they should get on with their lives and most of their infertile friends become pregnant and naturally gravitate towards other pregnant women etc I think if you have been through all that- then you have been to a place where Fiona can’t even imagine.

]]> By: deno http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17429 deno Mon, 13 Oct 2008 23:37:07 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17429 I am sure your life has become so busy, it's hard to sit down and write in peace. Look forward to reading about her progress. I am sure your life has become so busy, it’s hard to sit down and write in peace. Look forward to reading about her progress.

]]> By: Fiona http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17416 Fiona Sun, 12 Oct 2008 18:30:08 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17416 That is so reassuring and hopefully the movement will continue to reassure you. Anna is very well thanks. Have been meaning to write a post about her for ages, just to document her progress for myself really. If I don't write about it now, I might forget. I've written so much about how she got here and nothing about how she's got on since she arrived. Will try and do it this week. That is so reassuring and hopefully the movement will continue to reassure you.

Anna is very well thanks. Have been meaning to write a post about her for ages, just to document her progress for myself really. If I don’t write about it now, I might forget. I’ve written so much about how she got here and nothing about how she’s got on since she arrived. Will try and do it this week.

]]> By: deno http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17407 deno Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:14:09 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17407 I decided it against it. We did a anatomy scan that brought my numbers up to 1 in 3400. So I feel comfortable with that. I know if something was wrong I would have more than likely lost it in the first Tri, like I did with all the rest. I can feel the baby move now, so that is very reassuring. My ds is so happy it's a boy, he is all excited. How is baby Anna? bet she has grown so much. Try and post a updated photo of her. I decided it against it. We did a anatomy scan that brought my numbers up to 1 in 3400. So I feel comfortable with that. I know if something was wrong I would have more than likely lost it in the first Tri, like I did with all the rest.
I can feel the baby move now, so that is very reassuring.
My ds is so happy it’s a boy, he is all excited. How is baby Anna? bet she has grown so much. Try and post a updated photo of her.

]]> By: Fiona http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17401 Fiona Sun, 05 Oct 2008 20:34:51 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17401 Congratulations!!!! A little boy, how fantastic! It really is looking good for you now, so happy and relieved for you. Did you decide about the amnio? Congratulations!!!! A little boy, how fantastic! It really is looking good for you now, so happy and relieved for you. Did you decide about the amnio?

]]> By: deno http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17390 deno Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:58:13 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17390 Just to let ye know...it's a boy!! and everything looked great on the scan. 17 weeks now. Still can't believe it. Just to let ye know…it’s a boy!! and everything looked great on the scan. 17 weeks now. Still can’t believe it.

]]> By: Fiona http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17352 Fiona Mon, 22 Sep 2008 09:49:16 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17352 Great news Deno! I think I would be very slow to do amnio, not sure I would want to take any chances now things are looking so good. Best of luck with your decision. Great news Deno! I think I would be very slow to do amnio, not sure I would want to take any chances now things are looking so good. Best of luck with your decision.

]]> By: deno http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17335 deno Thu, 18 Sep 2008 13:09:48 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17335 Had another scan last week (14 weeks) and babe looked great. Doc wants to do a Anatomy scan week 17 before deciding on Amnio. We may opt not to do it, he doesn't want to take any chances. He thinks everything looks great and all the tests have come back normal. I am 15 weeks today, belly is popped out. Can't feel baby yet, can't wait till I do. Hope all is well with you and the family. Had another scan last week (14 weeks) and babe looked great. Doc wants to do a Anatomy scan week 17 before deciding on Amnio. We may opt not to do it, he doesn’t want to take any chances. He thinks everything looks great and all the tests have come back normal. I am 15 weeks today, belly is popped out. Can’t feel baby yet, can’t wait till I do. Hope all is well with you and the family.

]]> By: Fiona http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/2008/08/22/how-to-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-17324 Fiona Mon, 15 Sep 2008 18:22:39 +0000 http://makingbabies.ie/wordpress/?p=384#comment-17324 Deno - any updates? Deno – any updates?

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